From backyard BBQs to lavish rented venues, high school graduation parties have become a rite of passage nearly as important as the ceremony itself. They’re celebrations of achievement, but they also reflect deeper meanings: the end of childhood and the start of independence. So why have these parties become such a staple in our culture, and what do they mean to the teens and parents who throw them?
Jaya Sanchez (she/her), 12, is currently planning her grad party at Colony Acres Family Farm, which can be rented out for various private and community events. Sanchez made sure to include personal touches that would make the celebration memorable.
“I am having a guestbook for guests to write notes and sign; it will be a keepsake for me that I can look back on,” she said.
From sentimental details to creative inspiration, every element of the party reflects careful thought and personal meaning.
“Social media played a significant role in the planning process, specifically Pinterest and TikTok, because I was able to see ideas and what other people have done,” she adds. “It also played a big role in sharing my invitations.”
The platforms helped Sanchez gather inspiration for decorations and party activities, as well as ease the process of inviting her friends and family.
“It was important for me to have a grad party in order to celebrate not only my academic accomplishments, but the person I’ve become. It’s also a good way for me to say goodbye to the people I don’t see often because I’m moving to California for college.”
The celebration isn’t just about diplomas. For many students, like Sanchez, it’s a meaningful way to honor their journey, their growth and the people who supported them along the way.
“Grad parties are more than celebrating the end of high school; they’re about celebrating a new chapter in life and sharing the moment with loved ones,” said Sanchez. “For my family, this party means acknowledging my hard work and resilience over the years and is a huge milestone.”
Sanchez encourages other grads to make the most of the moment in a way that feels true to them.
“For anyone planning their own graduation party,” Sanchez said, “personalize the event however you want because it’s your celebration about you and what you want, not your mom or your brother or anyone else.”
She also highlights how overwhelming the process can be if you’re doing it all solo.
“I would also recommend delegating tasks to whoever is helping out because it can be stressful and overstimulating trying to figure everything out yourself.”
